Online dating has grown in popularity as a source of finding love and finding your life partner. However there are many concerns about the security and effectiveness of online dating.
In the ideal world of boys meet girls; fall in love and get married, such occurrence don’t happen easily to some people. A busy professional, a shy person or a person lacking in confidence can find it difficult to meet the love of their life. Sometimes, the age factor can limit the possibility to finding the right person too.
Online dating is like modern matchmaker.Online Dating have open up many opportunities for men and women finding love and marriage all around the world.
There are advantages to online dating:
In online dating, the intention is clear. You could be the most extroverted person, you could have lots of friends and activities but that doesn’t mean that the people you meet could share the same intention as you about finding a soul mate. The people who sign up with online dating sites have one common intention, that is, to find a soul mate. Communication becomes open and honest when that intention is known.
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Perhaps you are an introvert and you find it difficult to engage in a proper conversation. When creating your profile in the dating site, you have time to organise your thoughts and present them in the way you are most comfortable in. It is also not intimidating to engage initial contact with fellow online members through writing. You have the time to get to know the other person without jittery and fear of creating a wrong impression. Once you are comfortable with the person, you could then decide to take the next step of communication.
Of course there would be danger in online dating. There will be unscrupulous people in online dating sites preying on unsuspected people. Practice due diligence, do not divulge in your personal information like your home address, personal email and even work or financial situation too easily. Be aware that there are bad people around. Read articles on how to be safe in online dating, how to avoid mistakes in online dating and how to create a genuine and interesting profile that will attract the right kind of people.
Online dating has become more acceptable nowadays and it is slowly losing the stigma of ‘only for the desperate’.
Online dating sites have evolved and have become more sophisticated in their service to their members.
Most online dating sites offers free trial service for people to try the service for a short period of time.
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25 March 2009
18 February 2009
Online Dating Tips
Common Online Dating Mistake to Avoid.
Sometimes, in our eagerness to find our soul mate, that special someone, life partner, we could do the right things and sadly we could also do a lot of things wrong. Things that could take away your self confidence, failure in your pursuit for happiness and ultimately a broken heart.
The dating world is different from the working world, aggression, demand for perfection and lies could be detrimental to your success in finding a life partner. Aggression is not attractive and it could make you look unattractive and even scary to the other person.
There is no need to show aggression or be aggressive, showing confidence exude maturity and sensibility to the other party. Of course, one should not be over confident to the point of being arrogant and obnoxious. In the game of online dating, pushing too hard for a face to face meet up could come across as being too aggressive. Confidence and respecting the other person not only make you seems considerate and look attractive, you also get the respect from the person. Take your time to enjoy the online communication till both of you establish a common desire to take the next step, that is, a date.
When you join an online dating site, enter with an open mind. Do not expect perfection as nobody is perfect. Keep in mind that the people you will come across come from different background, different culture, habits and attitudes. What you see as an imperfection may not be an imperfection for the other person. There will always be flaws, you have to deal with them, and you can decide the ones you can live with and those you can’t.
Honesty is the best policy. Be honest when you write your profile, you can write an interesting profile without lying. Remember when you like false things about yourself, the lie will catch up and the truth will eventually come out. Imagine what will happen when you finally meet your ideal match and your lies could destroy everything.
You can have an enjoyable online dating experience and it is possible to find that soul mate and life partner. Don’t do anything to destroy the potential happiness you could have, remember, and stay away from aggression, lies and be prepared to expect imperfections.
Sometimes, in our eagerness to find our soul mate, that special someone, life partner, we could do the right things and sadly we could also do a lot of things wrong. Things that could take away your self confidence, failure in your pursuit for happiness and ultimately a broken heart.
The dating world is different from the working world, aggression, demand for perfection and lies could be detrimental to your success in finding a life partner. Aggression is not attractive and it could make you look unattractive and even scary to the other person.
There is no need to show aggression or be aggressive, showing confidence exude maturity and sensibility to the other party. Of course, one should not be over confident to the point of being arrogant and obnoxious. In the game of online dating, pushing too hard for a face to face meet up could come across as being too aggressive. Confidence and respecting the other person not only make you seems considerate and look attractive, you also get the respect from the person. Take your time to enjoy the online communication till both of you establish a common desire to take the next step, that is, a date.
When you join an online dating site, enter with an open mind. Do not expect perfection as nobody is perfect. Keep in mind that the people you will come across come from different background, different culture, habits and attitudes. What you see as an imperfection may not be an imperfection for the other person. There will always be flaws, you have to deal with them, and you can decide the ones you can live with and those you can’t.
Honesty is the best policy. Be honest when you write your profile, you can write an interesting profile without lying. Remember when you like false things about yourself, the lie will catch up and the truth will eventually come out. Imagine what will happen when you finally meet your ideal match and your lies could destroy everything.
You can have an enjoyable online dating experience and it is possible to find that soul mate and life partner. Don’t do anything to destroy the potential happiness you could have, remember, and stay away from aggression, lies and be prepared to expect imperfections.
17 February 2009
Create an interesting online dating profile
When you sign up with an online dating service, one of the things you will have to do is creating your profile.
Creating an interesting and honest profile is a very important step to towards positive outcome in the online dating game.
When creating your profile, remember that first impression are very important and what you put in your profile will be that first impression people have about you.
An interesting profile that is lively, fun , positive and different will be the catalyst for the person indicate their interest in getting to know you.
Look at how other people's profile,identify the ones that you like and dislike. Creat your own profile based on these knowledge but most importantly remember to be original and interesting.
Think about the kind of people you would want to meet. The way you portray yourself in your words is your own personal adverts to other people so think carefully about how you would like to be perceived.
A picture speak a thousand words and realistically, your photo will be the first thing that grabs the attention of the people viewing your profile. Think carefully about the photos you are going to post, is it a recent photos, does the photo bring out the best about you. How kind of impression are you giving, serious, funny, funky, kinky, vain or dull. It is also a good idea to post pictures that will provide a good icebreaker and a conversational piece.
Avoid negativity. Do not show negativity like complain or grumble in your profile, nagativity is a major turnoff. Positiveness attracts. Avoid words like 'hate' , 'dislike' , use positive words.
Be descriptive, not narrative in your profile. Be proactive in your description of yourself, make it interesting and exciting without any falseness.Be unique!
Be specific about the kind of people you would like to meet. You do not want to be bombarded with many response and none that meet your needs.
Creating an interesting and honest profile is a very important step to towards positive outcome in the online dating game.
When creating your profile, remember that first impression are very important and what you put in your profile will be that first impression people have about you.
An interesting profile that is lively, fun , positive and different will be the catalyst for the person indicate their interest in getting to know you.
Look at how other people's profile,identify the ones that you like and dislike. Creat your own profile based on these knowledge but most importantly remember to be original and interesting.
Think about the kind of people you would want to meet. The way you portray yourself in your words is your own personal adverts to other people so think carefully about how you would like to be perceived.
A picture speak a thousand words and realistically, your photo will be the first thing that grabs the attention of the people viewing your profile. Think carefully about the photos you are going to post, is it a recent photos, does the photo bring out the best about you. How kind of impression are you giving, serious, funny, funky, kinky, vain or dull. It is also a good idea to post pictures that will provide a good icebreaker and a conversational piece.
Avoid negativity. Do not show negativity like complain or grumble in your profile, nagativity is a major turnoff. Positiveness attracts. Avoid words like 'hate' , 'dislike' , use positive words.
Be descriptive, not narrative in your profile. Be proactive in your description of yourself, make it interesting and exciting without any falseness.Be unique!
Be specific about the kind of people you would like to meet. You do not want to be bombarded with many response and none that meet your needs.
16 February 2009
The odds of finding Mr. Right online.
As our lives get busier, we need to make better use of our time and energy in our search for the one man who will make our lives complete. No longer do you need to meet many men, have many relationships only to find the person is right or wrong for you.
With online dating, the number one advantage is the intention of finding a soul mate is commonly shared among the members of the online dating site. Hence, there is no pretence and no guessing game about whether the person is looking for someone.
You will be surprised that the number of men signing up in online dating site is much higher than women. Online dating gives you the opportunity to get to know the man before the first contact. You get to see his profile, that is, his age, where he lives, have he been married before, does he have any children, his height and weight. Some man would even post their photo in their profile. Through the profile, you can decide if you would like to take the next step of communication. You are in control.
You are also in a better position to present yourself in a favourable way. Some of us could be shy in nature; some of us find difficulty talking about ourselves in front of people. Online dating enable us to organise our thoughts, time to think about what we want to say about ourselves. When you write your profile in the online dating site, you have the time to reflect on who we really are, what do we like and dislike.
In online dating, you don’t have to wait to be introduce to someone, wait to be approach by someone. You are in control. When you find someone with an interesting profile, a profile that meets your Mr Right requirement, you can make the first move to contact the person. After you make the contact, you would also have the time to get to know the person better before deciding if you would like to meet him face to face.
There are many Online Dating sites, do your research before committing to one or two site. Read about how to create an effective online profile, tips on online dating and how to avoid common online dating mistakes.
With online dating, the number one advantage is the intention of finding a soul mate is commonly shared among the members of the online dating site. Hence, there is no pretence and no guessing game about whether the person is looking for someone.
You will be surprised that the number of men signing up in online dating site is much higher than women. Online dating gives you the opportunity to get to know the man before the first contact. You get to see his profile, that is, his age, where he lives, have he been married before, does he have any children, his height and weight. Some man would even post their photo in their profile. Through the profile, you can decide if you would like to take the next step of communication. You are in control.
You are also in a better position to present yourself in a favourable way. Some of us could be shy in nature; some of us find difficulty talking about ourselves in front of people. Online dating enable us to organise our thoughts, time to think about what we want to say about ourselves. When you write your profile in the online dating site, you have the time to reflect on who we really are, what do we like and dislike.
In online dating, you don’t have to wait to be introduce to someone, wait to be approach by someone. You are in control. When you find someone with an interesting profile, a profile that meets your Mr Right requirement, you can make the first move to contact the person. After you make the contact, you would also have the time to get to know the person better before deciding if you would like to meet him face to face.
There are many Online Dating sites, do your research before committing to one or two site. Read about how to create an effective online profile, tips on online dating and how to avoid common online dating mistakes.
25 October 2008
Common online dating mistake to avoid
Sometimes, in our eagerness to find our soul mate, that special someone, life partner, we could do the right things and sadly we could also do a lot of things wrong. Things that could take away your self confidence, failure in your pursuit for happiness and ultimately a broken heart.
The dating world is different from the working world, aggression, demand for perfection and lies could be detrimental to your success in finding a life partner. Aggression is not attractive and it could make you look unattractive and even scary to the other person.
There is no need to show aggression or be aggressive, showing confidence exude maturity and sensibility to the other party. Of course, one should not be over confident to the point of being arrogant and obnoxious. In the game of online dating, pushing too hard for a face to face meet up could come across as being too aggressive. Confidence and respecting the other person not only make you seems considerate and look attractive, you also get the respect from the person. Take your time to enjoy the online communication till both of you establish a common desire to take the next step, that is, a date.
When you join an online dating site, enter with an open mind. Do not expect perfection as nobody is perfect. Keep in mind that the people you will come across come from different background, different culture, habits and attitudes. What you see as an imperfection may not be an imperfection for the other person. There will always be flaws, you have to deal with them, and you can decide the ones you can live with and those you can’t.
Honesty is the best policy. Be honest when you write your profile, you can write an interesting profile without lying. Remember when you like false things about yourself, the lie will catch up and the truth will eventually come out. Imagine what will happen when you finally meet your ideal match and your lies could destroy everything.
You can have an enjoyable online dating experience and it is possible to find that soul mate and life partner. Don’t do anything to destroy the potential happiness you could have, remember, and stay away from aggression, lies and be prepared to expect imperfections.
The dating world is different from the working world, aggression, demand for perfection and lies could be detrimental to your success in finding a life partner. Aggression is not attractive and it could make you look unattractive and even scary to the other person.
There is no need to show aggression or be aggressive, showing confidence exude maturity and sensibility to the other party. Of course, one should not be over confident to the point of being arrogant and obnoxious. In the game of online dating, pushing too hard for a face to face meet up could come across as being too aggressive. Confidence and respecting the other person not only make you seems considerate and look attractive, you also get the respect from the person. Take your time to enjoy the online communication till both of you establish a common desire to take the next step, that is, a date.
When you join an online dating site, enter with an open mind. Do not expect perfection as nobody is perfect. Keep in mind that the people you will come across come from different background, different culture, habits and attitudes. What you see as an imperfection may not be an imperfection for the other person. There will always be flaws, you have to deal with them, and you can decide the ones you can live with and those you can’t.
Honesty is the best policy. Be honest when you write your profile, you can write an interesting profile without lying. Remember when you like false things about yourself, the lie will catch up and the truth will eventually come out. Imagine what will happen when you finally meet your ideal match and your lies could destroy everything.
You can have an enjoyable online dating experience and it is possible to find that soul mate and life partner. Don’t do anything to destroy the potential happiness you could have, remember, and stay away from aggression, lies and be prepared to expect imperfections.
1 July 2008
Romantic destiny in your own hand.
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23 January 2008
Love is all year round
The google alerts I received tell me that January is the month where more people go online to find their ideal partner. I have asked myself why is this so.
Is it because during the festive month of December, being with friends, family have make many of us feel the need to find love?
Perhaps the festivities is a good catalyst to look for romance, I believe that we should first have a right mindset.
A right mindset would mean
The intention of looking for love should not be influence by friends and family. It must never be due to ' all my friends are married, I should too '.
You can find love all year round but most importantly, our mindset towards getting love and wanting to be in love is a sound one.
Online datingis getting popular and I have personally find it to be a good way to embark into looking for love slowly and steadily.
Online dating: encourage you to think about what are the types of person you would like to meet, set your criteria in terms of interest, attitudes and values.
You have the right to find true love, you will never be short changed when you approach looking for love with the right mindset.
Lastly, you can find love anytime in the year.
Cheers!
Is it because during the festive month of December, being with friends, family have make many of us feel the need to find love?
Perhaps the festivities is a good catalyst to look for romance, I believe that we should first have a right mindset.
A right mindset would mean
recognizing your real intention of looking for love
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are you mentally prepared to accept another person into your life.
are you realistic about the kind of person you would like to meet.
The intention of looking for love should not be influence by friends and family. It must never be due to ' all my friends are married, I should too '.
You can find love all year round but most importantly, our mindset towards getting love and wanting to be in love is a sound one.
Online datingis getting popular and I have personally find it to be a good way to embark into looking for love slowly and steadily.
Online dating: encourage you to think about what are the types of person you would like to meet, set your criteria in terms of interest, attitudes and values.
You have the right to find true love, you will never be short changed when you approach looking for love with the right mindset.
Lastly, you can find love anytime in the year.
Cheers!
6 December 2007
There is no timeline for love and no deadline to find your soul mate
There is no timeline for love and no deadline to find your soul mate.
Single and In Your Fifties?
Date.com, the free online dating service have help single man and women meet other singles who may be looking for friendships, love, romance and marriage. A pioneering internet dating service that have help thousands of singles find their perfect date.
Single and In Your Fifties?
Date.com, the free online dating service have help single man and women meet other singles who may be looking for friendships, love, romance and marriage. A pioneering internet dating service that have help thousands of singles find their perfect date.
14 November 2007
Date or Soulmate
A very different online dating service:
Isn't it time you experienced the joy of falling in love with someone who sees you, loves you, and accepts you for who you are? This is the kind of joy that comes from true compatibility. And true compatibility is what forms the basis for every relationship.
Date or Soulmate by Dr. Neil Clark Warren - Get the book Today.
Isn't it time you experienced the joy of falling in love with someone who sees you, loves you, and accepts you for who you are? This is the kind of joy that comes from true compatibility. And true compatibility is what forms the basis for every relationship.
Date or Soulmate by Dr. Neil Clark Warren - Get the book Today.
12 September 2007
You have a choice
Online dating services
One definite attraction about online dating is you have a choice, you can set your criteria on the person you would like to meet.
Criteria like age,interest,profession,philosophy,nationality and even the wealth factor;
Just like this online dating service, a very interesting, thought provoking dating service, I have to concur that it is very practical. Afterall, why shouldn't we aim high But remember to have The Rules for Online Dating: Capturing the Heart of Mr. Right in Cyberspace
with you to help you get the best out of online dating.
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"Wealthymen.com is the one and only online personals dating site dedicated to those men & women seeking a higher caliber online dating experience. " "
One definite attraction about online dating is you have a choice, you can set your criteria on the person you would like to meet.
Criteria like age,interest,profession,philosophy,nationality and even the wealth factor;
Just like this online dating service, a very interesting, thought provoking dating service, I have to concur that it is very practical. Afterall, why shouldn't we aim high But remember to have The Rules for Online Dating: Capturing the Heart of Mr. Right in Cyberspace
with you to help you get the best out of online dating.
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