Wish you could get back with your Ex but do not know how to do so.

Wish you could get back with your Ex but do not know how to do so. You have tried contact your Ex but you don’t seem to get any headway; the answering machine seems to be your only source of contact.

Here are some secrets that could make your Ex return your call.
Think about it, are there 'magic' words you can use to get your ex to return your phone calls? Sounds hard to believe but there ARE words that will nearly cast a spell and make your ex felt almost compelled to return your call.

It’s true!

In the Magic of Making Up, there is a complete strategy on how you can get your ex to return your call.
Here are some tips from the book:
What NOT to Say!
Before we get into the actual words, let's go over what message almost NEVER works and it puts you in an AWFUL 'psychological' position.

These usually fall into 2 categories.
• The PLEAD- Where the message sounds like
"John, please, please call me. This is the 3rd time I have called. I HAVE to talk to you."
• The EMERGENCY-
"Cindy, this is an emergency. Please call me as soon as you get this."
Now, I think you can see what is wrong with both of those approaches?

Use Curiosity & Self Interest to Your Advantage

Two of the most powerful forces in the human mind are
• Curiosity
• Self Interest

And here's the BIG SECRET!

When you combine the two, you have a recipe that WILL work 'magic' let’s look at what you can say that works nearly EVERY TIME.

In a friendly tone:
"Hi John. It's Cindy. I wanted to let you know I appreciate what you did for me. Call me because I want to thank you in person."
Do you see how that uses BOTH curiosity and self interest?
John will NOT be able to resist! "What did I do?" "What does she appreciate?" he will be thinking. And he feels good because it is a positive message.

Now, before you call you need to do the "Set Up"...which is figuring out what he/she did that you appreciate. It can be any small thing but it needs to be plausible.
Have an underlying strategy. .....The Magic of Making Up system outline a strategy that would help you make that successful call. If you apply this technique with no underlying strategy and when they call back, you can do more damage if you do not handle it correctly.

What I am saying is..What you do before, during and after you get them to return your call is MORE important than getting them to return your call.
Remember, if it means so much to you.....
Have a PLAN