3 March 2009

Making dates more fun and enjoyable

Do you feel nervous on your first date? You know you have been on a great date when you end the day feeling happy, relaxed and wishing it never end.
Dating need not be a mundane experience. You can have an enjoyable and fun date by following few simple ideas:

1. Find out your date’s interest. You could go on a date based on the interest of your date or otherwise, it will help make interesting conversation with your date.

2. Go on an activity date like paintball shooting, mystery night or attend a salsa class. First dates like this will ease both you and your date into a neutral environment dispensing any initial awkwardness or shyness.

3. Doing an activity together on a date also help create conversational topic avoiding the need to make funny sentence to break any silence.

4. If weather is not on your side, you can have a theme date like cafe hopping or bar hopping. Moderate movement such as going to different places take away any monotony and create a sense of fun.

5. Be a good conversationalist. Being a good conversationalist means to be an attentive listener and being interested in your date. Some of us make the cardinal rule of either talking too much about ourselves or allowing the other person to talk all the time without any contribution from you.

There are many dating ideas that can make your dating experience a fun and enjoyable one. However, it is also important to remember not to overdo the activities. Moderation is the key and being sensitive to your date is important. Occasionally check with your date if he/she is enjoying herself/himself. Do not indulge in activities all the time without finding conversation moment. The date should be not only be fun and enjoyable for both of you, it should also be the platform to find a common ground.


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