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Enjoy!<br /><br />Alone at Christmas? - 10 Tips to Survive (And Even Enjoy) Being on Your Own at Christmas<br />By Janice Robertson <br /><br />This post is written for anybody who may not be looking forward to spending Christmas on their own. <br /><br />I have spent several Christmas's on my own. The first time, I was not really looking forward to it. I was single, I'd just moved into my own flat and I had no close family to spend Christmas with. After the initial, realisation and sadness that I really was going to be on my own, I decided that I was going to get through the day and have as good a time as I could. I ended up having a really good day and choose to spend Christmas on my own for several years afterwards until I got married.<br /><br />I think learning to be on my own at Christmas has actually made me more resourceful and self-reliant.<br /><br />If you really don't want to spend Christmas day on your own then you have several alternatives. You could go on holiday where there are lots of other single people. I spent one Christmas as a single person on a tiny island designed for backpackers and travellers off the coast of Fiji. I woke up at 5am on a wonderfully warm and sunny Christmas day, wandered down to the beach, sat on the sand and dipped my toes in the water. It was great fun, very beautiful and very spiritual. There were back-packers there aged from 17 to 70!<br /><br />Or you could spend the day as a volunteer perhaps working with the homeless or with animals in shelters. Giving of your time and your energy can be very satisfying.<br /><br />I think there is so much pressure and expectation to have a fun and jolly Christmas surrounded by a loving family that if you are on your own you can feel lonely and at odds with everyone else.<br /><br />So, here are my tips to survive (and dare I say even enjoy) Christmas on your own:<br /><br />1. De-clutter and clean up<br /><br />Start now to have a good clean up and de-clutter. De-cluttering tends to have a therapeutic effect and makes you feel good. Getting into action also tends to help you to lift your mood.<br /><br />2. Plan Your Christmas meals<br /><br />Plan what you are going to eat and drink over the festive season, including breakfasts. If you will be spending Christmas Eve at home don't forget to have something nice for that as well. If you don't feel like cooking then you can always get ready meals. On my Christmas Day, I would have a lovely breakfast. Then I had a glass (or two) of Champagne while I cooked my dinner. You don't have to cook traditional Christmas Food. This is your day, you can have whatever you want. If you are drinking alcohol though, please remember to eat something even if it's just snacks so that you don't just get drunk and morbid.<br /><br />3. Buy Yourself A Present or Two!<br /><br />Treat yourself to a present or two and wrap it up so you have something to open on Christmas Day. I always used to buy myself some cosy socks and new lingerie.<br /><br />4. Plan what You Are Going To Do<br /><br />Plan what you are going to do - watch TV, listen to music, play dvd's or playstation games, or you can go online to chat with others on different forums, facebook or twitter. Or curl up with a good book. Do not watch sad films or listen to sad music! Find something to make you laugh.<br /><br />5. Start the day off well<br /><br />Open the blinds to let the light in. If it's mild enough then open a window even just for a short time to freshen the room. Have a lovely bubble bath or shower, wear aftershave or perfume, makeup, and get dressed. I have spent the day in my jammies however I always have a lovely bubble bath beforehand, and do my hair and make-up before putting on my cosy socks.<br /><br />6. 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I found that I felt better afterwards and together with some loving self-talk I was able to move on and enjoy the rest of the day. This might sound strange but I do talk to myself on lots of occasions! It really does help.<br /><br />8. Don't Allow Other People To Feel Sorry For You!<br />One of the things I learned to avoid was well meaning friends who assumed that I was going to be miserable spending Christmas on my own. It really didn't help feeling sorry for me. And I'm sure there are several people who used to feel unnecessarily guilty because they didn't invite me for Christmas. The truth is I would much rather spend Christmas on my own, in my own home, with my own things around me than be somewhere else where people felt sorry for me.<br /><br />9. Create A Cosy Atmosphere<br /><br />Later on in the day create a cosy atmosphere. Fairy lights can create a lovely warm and welcoming atmosphere along with lovely spicy scents. I used to get and decorate a Christmas Tree but if you are not into Christmas decorations then candles or a nice fire give off a lovely glow.<br /><br />10. Things Change<br />You may have heard the phrase: This Too Shall Pass. You may be alone today but this could change. So take each Christmas Day as it comes.<br /><br />If you do feel that things are just too overwhelming then here are some useful links for you:<br /><br />Useful Links:<br /><br />Samaritans - for confidential, non judgement emotional support rel=nofollow http://www.samaritans.org/ <br /><br />Befrienders Worldwide - for emotional support for people in distress rel=nofollow http://www.befrienders.org/<br /><br />I invite you now to sign up for my newsletter at: http://janicerobertson.co.uk and connect with me here on twitter at: [http://twitter.com/Janicerobertson]http://twitter.com/Janicerobertson. <br /><br />Janice Robertson is an experienced Life and Career Coach specialising in helping people to live happy, healthy and fulfilling lives.<br /><br />Article Source: [http://EzineArticles.com/?Alone-at-Christmas?---10-Tips-to-Survive-(And-Even-Enjoy)-Being-on-Your-Own-at-Christmas&id=3368902] Alone at Christmas? - 10 Tips to Survive (And Even Enjoy) Being on Your Own at ChristmasJennifer Limhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00248141682180248729noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5075256243648650255.post-27731203436235574052009-06-02T15:59:00.000+01:002009-06-02T16:00:44.451+01:00Facts on flirtingNew posting....Jennifer Limhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00248141682180248729noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5075256243648650255.post-56629887694489989902009-05-05T22:56:00.002+01:002009-05-05T23:00:38.299+01:00How to get the best out of online dating service.As online dating becomes more popular, there is also an increase influx of <a href=”http://friendsunlimited.eu/Online_Dating_sites_review.html/”>internet dating sites </a> With so many online services available, it can be confusing on which site to use. 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Sometimes, the age factor can limit the possibility to finding the right person too.<br /><br />Online dating is like modern matchmaker.Online Dating have open up many opportunities for men and women finding love and marriage all around the world. <br /><br />There are advantages to online dating:<br /><br />In online dating, the intention is clear. You could be the most extroverted person, you could have lots of friends and activities but that doesn’t mean that the people you meet could share the same intention as you about finding a soul mate. The people who sign up with online dating sites have one common intention, that is, to find a soul mate. Communication becomes open and honest when that intention is known.<br /><br />Or<br /><br />Perhaps you are an introvert and you find it difficult to engage in a proper conversation. When creating your profile in the dating site, you have time to organise your thoughts and present them in the way you are most comfortable in. 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Unless you are not interested in the person which we should then question our intention of meeting the person. Bad dating practices and habits could rob you of any potential happiness you could have with your date. <br /><br />Here are some tips on how you can avert dating disasters:<br /><br />Be a good conversationalist<br /><br />A good conversation is two way communications. Do not dominate or bore your date about yourself and neither should you let the other party dominate the conversation throughout. Take time to ask your date questions about themselves and their views. Contribute in between information about yourself to show that you listened and you want your date to know about you too.<br /><br />Punctuality<br /><br />When you practise punctuality for your date, it shows that you care and respect the person. This is especially important when going on a first date. It shows your desire to meet the person and you are interested in them. If you think you are going to be late, always call your date and let them know that you will be late and the reason.<br /><br />Dress and look appropriately<br /><br />Take time to groom yourself, dress appropriately and look smart for your date. What you wear not only show your interests, it could also create a wrong impression. For example, a sexy, cleavage revealing dress on a first date could attract sexual interest. You could miss the chance of getting to know each other based on common interests and views. So not dress untidily as if you have been cleaning your car or you have just got up of bed.<br /><br />Be attentive<br /><br />Stay attentive to your date. Avoid looking at other people when your date is talking. Some people fidget a lot on a date, playing with table napkin or fiddling with their drinks. It is very distracting and shows your disrespect and disinterest for your date.<br /><br />Avoid talking about your ex<br /><br />Talking about your ex especially on a first date is a no go zone. Firstly, it could override your initial intention to know your date better and reduce the chance of knowing each other better. Furthermore when you talk about your ex, it could show that you still have emotional attachment to your ex. It could prejudice your chance of finding if your date is right for you.<br /><br />Take care of your drinks<br /><br />It is not a good idea to over indulge in alcoholic drinks. You could be a good drinker or you could become uncouth after a few drinks, having too many drinks on a date is not a good thing. Excessive drinking on a date not only gives the impression of an addictive personality, too much alcohol could hinder your judgement.<br /><br />Be yourself<br /><br />Do not lie or pretend to be somebody else. 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Other compatible issues includes attitude to work, attitudes to families and attitudes to sharing.<br /><br />Traditionally in many countries, compatibility testing were carried out by parents looking for the right spouse for their children. The compatibility testing then would be based on the compatibility of the both family social class, wealth and educational level. Though it may seems shallow and unrealistic, it was the core of most families in the past.<br /><br />In the online dating scene, the <a href="http://www.friendsunlimited.eu/">online dating service </a>will usually matched you to people based on your compatibility test questions.<br /><br />So what is compatibility testing?<br /><br />1. There are many types of compatibility test. One common test is astrology compatibility test.<br /><br />Here, compatibility of two persons is derived from the astrological make up of the two individuals. 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Take your time to enjoy the online communication till both of you establish a common desire to take the next step, that is, a date.<br /><br />When you join an online dating site, enter with an open mind. Do not expect perfection as nobody is perfect. Keep in mind that the people you will come across come from different background, different culture, habits and attitudes. What you see as an imperfection may not be an imperfection for the other person. There will always be flaws, you have to deal with them, and you can decide the ones you can live with and those you can’t.<br /><br /> Honesty is the best policy. Be honest when you write your profile, you can write an interesting profile without lying. Remember when you like false things about yourself, the lie will catch up and the truth will eventually come out. Imagine what will happen when you finally meet your ideal match and your lies could destroy everything.<br /><br /> You can have an enjoyable online dating experience and it is possible to find that soul mate and life partner. Don’t do anything to destroy the potential happiness you could have, remember, and stay away from aggression, lies and be prepared to expect imperfections.Jennifer Limhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00248141682180248729noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5075256243648650255.post-57829077707039910982008-10-25T17:08:00.003+01:002009-02-18T14:19:09.518+00:00Common online dating mistake to avoidSometimes, in our eagerness to find our soul mate, that special someone, life partner, we could do the right things and sadly we could also do a lot of things wrong. 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Imagine what will happen when you finally meet your ideal match and your lies could destroy everything.<br /><br /> You can have an enjoyable online dating experience and it is possible to find that soul mate and life partner. 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Creat your own profile based on these knowledge but most importantly remember to be original and interesting.<br /><br />Think about the kind of people you would want to meet. The way you portray yourself in your words is your own personal adverts to other people so think carefully about how you would like to be perceived.<br /><br />A picture speak a thousand words and realistically, your photo will be the first thing that grabs the attention of the people viewing your profile. Think carefully about the photos you are going to post, is it a recent photos, does the photo bring out the best about you. How kind of impression are you giving, serious, funny, funky, kinky, vain or dull. It is also a good idea to post pictures that will provide a good icebreaker and a conversational piece.<br /><br />Avoid negativity. Do not show negativity like complain or grumble in your profile, nagativity is a major turnoff. Positiveness attracts. 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No longer do you need to meet many men, have many relationships only to find the person is right or wrong for you.<br /><br />With online dating, the number one advantage is the intention of finding a soul mate is commonly shared among the members of the online dating site. Hence, there is no pretence and no guessing game about whether the person is looking for someone. <br /><br />You will be surprised that the number of men signing up in online dating site is much higher than women. Online dating gives you the opportunity to get to know the man before the first contact. You get to see his profile, that is, his age, where he lives, have he been married before, does he have any children, his height and weight. Some man would even post their photo in their profile. Through the profile, you can decide if you would like to take the next step of communication. You are in control.<br /><br />You are also in a better position to present yourself in a favourable way. Some of us could be shy in nature; some of us find difficulty talking about ourselves in front of people. Online dating enable us to organise our thoughts, time to think about what we want to say about ourselves. When you write your profile in the online dating site, you have the time to reflect on who we really are, what do we like and dislike.<br /><br />In online dating, you don’t have to wait to be introduce to someone, wait to be approach by someone. You are in control. When you find someone with an interesting profile, a profile that meets your Mr Right requirement, you can make the first move to contact the person. After you make the contact, you would also have the time to get to know the person better before deciding if you would like to meet him face to face.<br /><br />There are many <a href="http://www.friendsunlimited.eu/">Online Dating sites</a>, do your research before committing to one or two site. Read about how to create an effective online profile, tips on online dating and how to avoid common online dating mistakes.Jennifer Limhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00248141682180248729noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5075256243648650255.post-86113184181076945622008-09-30T23:41:00.002+01:002009-02-16T11:40:06.127+00:005 Dating Mistakes That Men Make With WomenGreat women are hard to find. So when you do find one, don’t ruin your chances by making these deadly mistakes. Remember, attractive women have dated a lot of men so they know what’s going on. The result? They’ll disappear before you realize you’ve done anything wrong.<br /><br />Here are 5 things that many men do that blow their chances with their girlfriend, <br />and how to avoid them.<br /><strong>Mistake #1: Sharing your feelings with her too early</strong><br /><br />When you announce that you love her, you lose the mystery, the magic and the chase. Remember that the early stages of dating should always remain casual. Only after you get to know each other really well should you pursue anything <br />further. It’s also worth mentioning that you can’t logically convince someone to fall in love with you either. Falling in love is a process that happens <br />outside the conscious mind.<br /><strong>Mistake #2: Trying to push it too far too soon</strong><br /><br />It’s natural to wonder about your future together but remember, if you start talking about marriage after only 12 months, you could ruin your chances to take things further. Just because you like a particular girl doesn’t mean you should rush things any faster than they should naturally progress. Think about your friends and how the natural progress of friendship happens. Rarely do you meet someone and feel eager to become best buddies over night. As a general rule: slower is better. <br /><br /><strong>Mistake #3: Being too available</strong><br /><br />You might think “saying you’re busy” is playing a mind game or being manipulative. Well let me tell you something: everything you do is manipulation. We always act a certain way to try and achieve a certain outcome. The best way to come across naturally is to ACTUALLY BE BUSY. Get involved in life and don’t make your new girlfriend the center of your attention.This is simply a reminder to be who you were before you met the girl of your dreams and continue to be that person, rather than use trickery. Remember that <br /> your busy, interesting and fun life only has so much time for her, no matter <br /> how much you like her. And remember, women love a challenge and mystery, so <br /> this actually works in your favor.<p></p><br /><p><strong>Mistake #4: Not being yourself / Seeking approval</strong><p></p><br /><p>Women love confident men with a strong sense of self-worth. Unfortunately, <br /> guys often try to guess how the woman wants them to act and try to accommodate <br /> her mold, which leaves very little room for your own personality to shine. Be <br /> comfortable being you. Showing that you’re not scared to be yourself is <br /> very attractive and very refreshing for others.<p></p><br /><p><strong>Mistake #5: Buying gifts</strong><p></p><br /><p>While buying gifts “looks” like a nice gesture, the underlying <br /> message is, “I want you to like me, so here’s this expensive thing.” <br /> Don’t do it. Gifts are for couples in long term relationships. Buying <br /> them too early can have the opposite effect to what you want.<p></p><br /><p>So there you have it. The 5 big mistakes that guys make while they’re <br /> dating women. Avoid these mistakes and you’ll dramatically increase the <br /> chances of succeeding with her.<p></p><br /><p>About the Author:<p></p><br /><p>Michael Webb's latest book, "Getting Her Back… For Good" provides <br /> you with a step-by-step plan to help heal relationships, prevent a breakup and <br /> how to get her back if she dumps you. For all the details, visit the <strong><a href="http://stepinside.gettingher.hop.clickbank.net/">how <br /> to win her back</a></strong> website. <p></p>Jennifer Limhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00248141682180248729noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5075256243648650255.post-60807769652783397862007-09-09T21:18:00.001+01:002009-02-16T11:34:27.706+00:00Flirting is a basic social skill!<a href="http://www.friendsunlimited.eu/">Friends unlimited - free online dating tips</a><br />Flirting is a basic social skill, learn how to flirt with ease and confidence<br />When you flirt, you feel happy and make other people happy too Build confidence, improve your social life, learn how to become a great flirt!<br />Imagine yourself in a room full of people, how would like to be seen, how will you behave, do you want to walk out of the party feeling happy about yourself. Yes, when you flirt, you feel good about yourself and make other people happy, you can learn to become a great flirt.<br /><br />Flirting, an action many of us would like to be doing but is afraid of what it will says about us. Flirting is not a bad thing, it is a basic social skill, it’s about being friendly and warmth, showing an interest in people and it is definitely good for the confidence. Flirting is easy; many of us flirt now and then usually without realising it.<br /><br />Many of us falter at the flirting game because of our past experience and our expectations. Flirting is fun and should be carried out in a relaxed manner. The classic mistake many of us made is:<br /><br />We all try to learn from our past experience especially if we have been hurt before. So when we make a conscious effort to do things differently, we may not get the immediate response we want, that is, our expectations. We feel angry and hurt; eventually we withdraw into our shell. Your body language will show your hurt and make others stay away.<br /><br />You do not have to make that mistake again. Flirting is not logical; you don’t have to be a ravishing beauty, rich and smooth. It is a mind game, the first thing you need to do is:<br /><br />Acknowledge that you want to be a good flirt <br />Be ready to practice being a good flirt <br />Enjoy being a good flirt <br />So let’s start now!<br /><br />Basic flirting rules<br /><br />Be intelligent. Flirting is not about being critical, argumentative or behaving like a helpless person. <br />Be interested in the other person. Talking about you all the time is definitely a flirting suicide. <br />You do not need alcohol influence to make you sparkle, in fact it might make you loose control of yourself and become a flirting disaster. <br />Dress appropriately for the occasion, not outlandish or expensive. Be presentable and comfortable, you want people to know you and not your clothes. <br />Empty any emotional baggage before you commence you flirting routine. When you carry your troubles around with you, it shows in your words and your body language. <br />Be in the right mood for flirting or whatever effort you made will go to waste. <br />Be alert and patient. Assess your flirting partner’s mood or response; sometimes it takes a while for a person to response favourably due to their current state of mind. <br />Be prepared both physically and emotionally. You do not know whom you will meet and you do not want to be caught in an awkward situation. <br /> <br /><br /> Flirting Tips <br />Greet the people you meet with great energy and zest. Feel happy and mean it when you say hello. It will resonate in your voice and make the other person look forward to talking to you. <br />Touch is important; the first handshake should be memorable. 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You could guess what could happen next. <br />Be intellectually stimulated, keep up to date about the things around us but do not be a show off. <br />When you give someone undivided attention, you flatter the person. A good flirt will be one who will move away from the conversation when it’s going well, it definitely make the person want more.You will definitely see the person again. <br />Learn to move away at the right time, prolong the mystery about you and make the person want to speak to you again. 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When it comes to having fun on first dates, nothing <br /> is more important than what you do. And while dinners and movies are nice, it's <br /> really hard to leave a great impression in these settings. Why? Because they <br /> set a very "proper tone" that's hard to turn into fun and playful. And unless <br /> you're a super funny, intelligent and interesting guy, dinner and movie dates <br /> just aren't the best place to take your date. Instead, go to fun places like <br /> mini-golf parks, carnivals, parks, or even better, come up with your own unique <br /> and fun ideas.<br /><p>So in essence, while there are many factors to having a successful date, a <br /> great date idea really helps you do many of them naturally! Remember, where <br /> you take a woman on a first date can be the difference between a great night <br /> and a dating disaster! Choose wisely!<br /><p><strong>About the author:</strong><br /><p>Oprah Expert Michael Webb is the author of <em>300 Creative Dates</em>, a book <br /> jam-packed with unique ways to help leave a great first impression without breaking <br /> the bank! <br /><br /><a href="http://www.friendsunlimited.eu/">Find out more about wiht 300 Creative Dates Book Review here</a>Jennifer Limhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00248141682180248729noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5075256243648650255.post-62793623800674493262008-07-21T18:22:00.001+01:002008-07-21T18:25:56.988+01:00Happy with your online dating profile?<a href="http://friendsunlimited.eu/Online_Dating_Profile.html">Online Dating Profile</a>:<br />When you sign up with an online dating service, one of the things you will have to do is creating your profile.<br />Creating an interesting and honest profile is a very important step to towards positive outcome in the online dating game."<br /><br /><a href="http://friendsunlimited.eu/Online_Dating_Profile.html">Read more</a>....<br /><br />The greatest thing you'll ever learn <br />Is to love and be loved in return. <br />~ From "Unforgettable with Love" by Natalie ColeJennifer Limhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00248141682180248729noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5075256243648650255.post-44004684577017471182008-07-01T16:27:00.003+01:002008-07-01T16:37:00.996+01:00Romantic destiny in your own hand.<a href="http://matchinternational.at/stepinside?CTY=3&CID=884">Match.com</a> has more than 15 million members and websites serving 37 countries in more than 12 different languages.<a href="http://matchinternational.at/stepinside?CTY=3&CID=884">Match.com</a> has one simple mission: to take the lottery out of love. Instead of taking the chance that you'll step into an elevator and meet someone, or that your brother's best friend's cousin knows someone who's perfect for you, <a href="http://matchinternational.at/stepinside?CTY=3&CID=884">Match.com</a> lets their members take their romantic destiny into their own hands.<br /><br />Check out <a href="http://matchinternational.at/stepinside?CTY=3&CID=884">Match.com</a> now!<br /><br /><a href="http://matchinternational.at/stepinside?CTY=2&CID=4235"><img src="http://b1.perfb.com/o1.php?ID=4235&PURL=matchinternational.at/stepinside" border="0"></a>Jennifer Limhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00248141682180248729noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5075256243648650255.post-64721988195693362792008-05-15T19:59:00.001+01:002008-05-15T20:04:58.891+01:00Love will find the way<object width="425" height="355"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/5XhufW7-c_k&hl=en"></param><param name="wmode" value="transparent"></param><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/5XhufW7-c_k&hl=en" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" wmode="transparent" width="425" height="355"></embed></object>Jennifer Limhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00248141682180248729noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5075256243648650255.post-68372368792301638772008-01-23T17:19:00.000+00:002008-01-23T18:06:05.015+00:00Love is all year roundThe google alerts I received tell me that January is the month where more people go online to find their ideal partner. I have asked myself why is this so. <br />Is it because during the festive month of December, being with friends, family have make many of us feel the need to find love? <br />Perhaps the festivities is a good catalyst to look for romance, I believe that we should first have a right mindset.<br /><br />A right mindset would mean <br /><blockquote>recognizing your real intention of looking for love<br /> - <br />are you mentally prepared to accept another person into your life.<br /> <br />are you realistic about the kind of person you would like to meet.</blockquote> <br />The intention of looking for love should not be influence by friends and family. It must never be due to ' all my friends are married, I should too '. <br /><br />You can find love all year round but most importantly, our mindset towards getting love and wanting to be in love is a sound one.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.friendsunlimited.eu/Online_dating_hot_picks.html"> Online dating</a>is getting popular and I have personally find it to be a good way to embark into looking for love slowly and steadily.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.friendsunlimited.eu/Online_dating_hot_picks.html"> Online dating</a>: encourage you to think about what are the types of person you would like to meet, set your criteria in terms of interest, attitudes and values. <br /><br />You have the right to find true love, you will never be short changed when you approach looking for love with the right mindset.<br /><br />Lastly, you can find love anytime in the year.<br /><br />Cheers!Jennifer Limhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00248141682180248729noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5075256243648650255.post-59746151519965909432007-11-22T19:33:00.000+00:002008-01-02T01:23:40.316+00:00Is there any danger with online dating?<a href="http://www.friendsunlimited.eu/Enroute_to_happiness.html">Is there any danger with online dating?</a><br />Is online dating safe? <br />Online dating have taken the world by storm in the last decade, many beautiful partnership have been formed. However, there are also undesirable encounters that have given online dating bad press.<br />How can we have an fruitful and enjoyable online dating experience?<br /><br />I believe that it is possible to find true love and genuine partnership through online dating service. I have personally benefitted from online dating, met and married a very genuine, honest man through a online dating service.<br /><br />I believe that it is still prudent to take care hence I would like to compile a list of dos and don'ts about online dating and what precaution we should take. <br />It would definitely benefit people who are thinking of trying online dating.<br /><br />xxxx<br /><br /><strong>Trust Your Instinct<br /><br />Our instinct is very powerful, use your gut instinct, register your first thought when you read another person's profile because as you continue your interaction with the person, through email, phone conversations or meeting in person, that instinct will often surface as a cue if something is not really right<br />xxxx<br />Be vigilant<br /><br />Do not provide personal information like phone number, home address too quickly and early in the interaction. This is a precaution against any person using your information to gain access to your other personal information like income, place of work, value of home..</strong><br /><br /><br />Do you have any advice or tips on how to enjoy a safe online dating experience?Jennifer Limhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00248141682180248729noreply@blogger.com0